Whitefish teacher donates kidney
When teacher Rebecca Hjertberg returns
to the classroom this fall she will have a unique story to tell
students about her summer.
“When they ask ‘what did you do over
the summer?’ I can say I donated a kidney to my cousin,” Hjertberg
said.
The Whitefish resident teaches 3- to
5-year-olds at Northwest Montana Head Start and recently donated
her kidney to her cousin, Dean Engle.
Hjertberg gave the kidney because of a
desire to help her cousin, but she also plans to use the experience
to send a message to her students and others.
“What a better way to share with my
preschoolers that doctors don’t have to be scary and that adults
can make the right choice,” she said.
To other adults she says if she can do
it, anyone can. “I’m just an average school teacher,” she said. “If
it’s in their heart anyone can do it.”
It was more than a year ago when Engle,
who lives near Los Angeles, was visiting family in Montana when he
suddenly went into a diabetic coma and his kidneys began to fail.
He came out of the coma, but was put on dialysis and the waiting
list for a new kidney.
When Hjertberg saw him the hospital she
knew immediately that she wanted to help.
She thought back to summers they spent
growing up together on Flathead Lake. She remembered the time
shared at the family cabin and how their grandmother had worked to
make sure the cousins were close to one another.
“He never came to me asking for a
kidney,” she said. “I knew in my heart I wanted to do this. He’s
like a brother.”
Another family member was tested as a
donor, but didn’t match. Hjertberg was tested next and she had
enough DNA markers to be considered a match. It took time to
arrange the surgery and they chose to have it during summer so
Hjertberg wouldn’t have to miss work.
During this time, Engle continued to
have dialysis treatment three times per week. It would take him an
hour to drive to the treatment each way and then another three
hours for the dialysis.
“He couldn’t come and enjoy Montana or
ride his Harley,” Hjertberg said. “It hasn’t changed my life — I
can live life with one kidney. This has increased the quality of
his life. I was just lucky enough to be a match.”
Last month, Hjertberg, along with her
husband Jon, traveled to California for the transplant surgery at
the University of California, San Diego Medical Center. She spent
16 days in the area, first for testing and later for the surgery
and recovery.
Prior to surgery she had various
medical tests and spoke with a psychiatrist. “It was the best
physical I’ve had,” she said.
The surgery lasted two and a half hours
and was performed with robotics. Her surgeon was from Chile and is
world-renowned in kidney transplants.
After the surgery she said she felt
like she was “hit by a truck.”
But after a few days in the hospital
she was walking on the beach and now two months later she feels
back to normal. She was told it would take three months before she
is fully recovered.
The Medical Center presented Hjertberg
with a hero medal after the surgery. Hjertberg said she had no idea
about the medal beforehand, but it was nice to get.
The real reward came from knowing her
cousin’s life has improved and the thanks from his family.
“Before he had to limit his intake of
water every day,” she said. “His potassium was high and he couldn’t
eat bananas. He enjoys eating them again. He said he hasn’t felt
this good in 20 years.”
They’ll always be connected now, she
said.
“He says he thanks me every time he
pees,” she said with a laugh.